Do you Dread on your Parents’ Friendship Request on Facebook?

According to a general statement, most teens fret and fear when they think of ‘friending’ their parents on social media such as Facebook. However, this general opinion is countered by the outcome of a recent study.

The study involved a survey of nearly 2,500 teens. The result shows that both the teenagers and the parents had profile pages or accounts in Facebook – 65 percent was already ‘friending’ online. Among the teens surveyed, more than 15 percent were forced to become friends with their parents as a condition to have their own Facebook accounts; however, the number of teens that voluntarily became friends with their parents on Facebook is quite impressive.

Among the teens that are not ‘friending’ their parents on Facebook (approximately 36%), more than a-third admitted that they paid deaf ear to their parents’ friendship request on Facebook.

However, the leader of the survey observed that parents friending request rejection by some teens doesn’t actually point to an absence of parental involvement. In the actual fact, the teens that ignored their parents’ friending request (over 81 percent of them) on Facebook admitted wholeheartedly that their parents are 100% involved in their upbringing.

The survey carried out by Kaplan group before now showed that friendship differs when it comes to ‘friending’ parents. Among those teens that accepted their parents’ friending request, about 15 percent have somewhat placed access control on their accounts, so that their parents would not have full access to their accounts. “We are expecting a rise in this number – especially with the updated Facebook features that enable friendship and friends’ activities restrictions”, says Kristen (the Prep executive director of Kaplan Survey).

Kristen advises parents not to read much meaning to the fact that their teens ignore their friendship request – “It is not necessarily an indicator that those teens are playing some foul games. They probably just want to stay independent in this aspect of their lives”.

Sometimes, it could even be a mutual agreement between parents and teens, that their Facebook interactions and activities be kept private. Now, what’s your own experience when you requested for your teen child’s ‘friending’ on Facebook? I would like to share your experience with you.

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Recession – a Favorable Time to Live Healthier and Smarter

The persisting economic downturn has turned the majority of us to become incredulous – wondering what would eventually become of house values and how high the prices of gas and grocery would become soon. Taking a closer look and analysis, a sort of refrain is on the air – who knows, this financial crisis has come to help Americans arise to the consciousness of living within our means, and to live healthier and smarter.

recessionFor Americans, it has always been a ‘fast paced’ lifestyle – think about fast food, diner food and just anything that can be done swiftly. We prefer to eat out most of the times, leaving no room for a quality time with our families in the home dining section. We prefer to drive, instead of walking to a nearby shop (no room for exercise).

The recession has not come to maim us, but to help us change in a better way. Let’s analyze the regular trends and see how we can convert them to something positive – eventually leading to a happier, healthier and moderate lifestyle:

Here are some statistics; a poll has it that nearly 65% of US families and kids under age of 18 testified that every other week, they had dinner at home 4-5 times – the statistics were nearly 70% in the 90′s. Approximately, 70 percent of American households whose income exceeds 50,000 dollars had just one meal outside home in a week, and about 17% of the entire households surveyed dined on fast foods twice or thrice in a week.

Lesson: it is quite expensive to eat outside home. It is still cost-effective to get your groceries and prepare your own food. Cooking at home should be favored, even if it is just a dollar cheeseburger from McDonalds that is trying to win your attention. Also, looking at it from health perspective (of which, Americans have a pitiable health condition; 63 percent of Americans have excess weight, while more than 30% are obese – National Center for Health Statistics).

It has been proven that restaurant meals are not as healthy as meals prepared at home. Typically, an American would usually go for less-fatty and top quality ingredients when cooking their own foods at home. Conversely, the restaurant meals may contain some of those artery-clogging ingredients; of course, it may not appear so when they present the ready meals to you.

How to overcome eating out: look at those things that lure you to eat out and consider integrating them in your dining structure – whether the meal itself or the atmosphere. You can make your dining section’s atmosphere to have a better ambiance than that of restaurants. If you are constrained of time, opt for meals that would take less time to prepare, and also discourage yourself from eating out by comparing how long it would take to drive down (it could take lesser time to get your meal at home ready).

You can also make your meals tastier than those foods that beckon on you at restaurants – there are loads of free recipes on the internet to assist you. You may as well get the best-selling home recipes hard copies.

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Why the Best Place to Meet a Soul Mate is Online

Internet dating has rapidly become the preferred choice for singles from all walks of life who are looking for a soul mate.

Back in 2002, Wired magazine correctly predicted that very soon the idea of not looking online for love would be as silly as only thinking you can find good books by trawling through a library’s shelves. The history of online dating is one of rapid growth and in the largest online market alone (America) it represents the second highest paid for content spend, behind only pornography, with an estimated 20 million unique users each month resulting in 120,000 marriages each year.

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Five reasons to look for love online

It helps you to clearly define what and who you are looking for

The experience of writing a profile for yourself, and reading the profiles of others, can help you to clarify exactly what and who you are looking for. With a clear picture in mind, and the ability to tailor your searches, you will be clearer in your goals and more effective in achieving them.

It gives you control

Using online dating you can now enjoy nights out with friends on their own terms rather than with one eye on prospective partners. You can search for love at leisure, when you want and at your own pace. You can decide exactly who you would like to pursue a conversation with and ease yourself in gently through shared messages, pictures, phone or video calls before going out on that first date.

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It gives you time to think

Not all of us are social butterflies ever ready with witty ripostes and a conversational flow like the Snowy River. Dating online allows you to learn about other people before you initiate contact and it allows you to prepare what you wish to say. By the time you meet there will be plenty to talk and laugh about.

It builds confidence

In writing your own profile you can look at how others have written theirs. You can adapt and adopt as you see fit and will no longer find yourself standing tongue-tied when asked to say a little bit about yourself.

It is where the true dating action is

It is true to say that more people use online dating than any other means to seriously find a soul mate. Your perfect partner is much more likely to be online than at a bar, your friend’s party, a speed date meet or in the queue at a supermarket.

Give online dating a try

If you want to expand the Perth dating possibilities open to you, or are looking for love elsewhere in Australia, then online dating sites such as www.eharmony.com.au can offer you the control, confidence, time and targeted searching power that you need to find love. Happy dating!